Are You Overconfident in Your Willpower?

For years I thought I could outsmart distractions with willpower alone. I’d sit down to write a blog post or work on a project and minutes later I’d be caught in the same old cycle—checking emails, scrolling through social media, bouncing from one tab to the next. By the end of it, I’d have wasted 20 minutes and barely produced a paragraph.

Does this sound familiar?

A few weeks ago, I celebrated my 40th birthday, and my friends and family pitched in to gift me one of the most powerful supertools I’ve ever owned. 

I’ve only been using it for a couple of weeks now and already I’ve been able to accomplish so much more on my projects. I’ve become more creative in my thinking. And the best part is, the work is so much more enjoyable.

So what is this genius-unlocking supertool? It’s a reMarkable Paper Pad and the accompanying pen.

There’s a good chance you haven’t heard of the brand, but essentially it’s a tablet with a paper-like surface that you can use to take notes on.

And that’s it!

Sure, it’s well-designed for taking lots of notes, organizing them, and using templates for different types of notetaking. But there are no apps, no notifications, no endless streams of information vying for my attention. It has one function, which means I can have singular focus, an thus I spend more time in productive and creative flow.

The genius of the paper pad tablet is that it makes it easier to sustain my attention on task.

Who doesn’t feel the constant pull of distractions? Whether it’s emails, Slack notifications, social media, or the quick-fixes of dopamine from scrolling. I thought I could manage these distractions myself but here’s what I realized: willpower alone isn’t enough.

The Myth of Willpower

I used to believe that all I needed was more discipline. But here’s the truth: ignoring distractions is harder than it looks and it takes mental energy. Constantly resisting the urge to check that email or respond to that notification is draining. It takes energy we could otherwise put toward our creative productivity. The more time we spend trying to ignore distractions, the less we have to give to the task at hand.

This is where my reMarkable pad changed the game for me. When I use it I don’t have to fight off distractions because there are none. My focus is singular, and my willpower doesn’t even come into play. The tablet helps me engineer a work environment that eliminates distractions, which frees me up to enter a state of flow more easily.

What About You?

Are you overconfident in your willpower? Do you think you can handle the barrage of distractions on your own?

Here’s a tough truth I learned: you can’t just rely on willpower. The more effective strategy is to change your environment so that distractions don’t stand a chance. Here are a few practical ways to do that:

• Use site blockers: Tools like Freedom or StayFocusd allow you to block distracting websites for set periods of time.
• Work offline: Take inspiration from my paper pad and work on tasks away from internet-connected devices when possible.
• Lock your phone away: Yes, physically remove it. Lock it in a drawer or safe for a specific amount of time.
• Set physical boundaries: If working from home, create a distraction-free zone that’s dedicated to focus. Let family or colleagues know when you’re unavailable.

For Leaders

Now imagine if your whole team could engineer environments that eliminated distractions. How much more effective could they be? The reality is distraction impacts not just individuals but entire teams and organizations. Workflows are interrupted, meetings get derailed, and productivity suffers across the board. By designing distraction-free spaces and adopting tools that minimize attention drains, leaders can help their teams reach higher levels of performance and creativity.

The Power of Accepting Limits

At first, it felt humbling - even embarrassing - to realize that my willpower wasn’t enough to combat distractions. But accepting the limits of our minds is a powerful move. Instead of pretending we can do it all we can focus on building environments that set us up for success.

When you acknowledge the limits of your attention you give yourself the opportunity to structure your surroundings in a way that fosters focus and flow. And it’s through this that you unlock your highest levels of productivity and creativity, without draining your energy reserves.

What environmental changes can you make today to eliminate distractions and sharpen your focus?